Thursday, December 23, 2010
I Love Her Use of Words
We're keeping an almost running commentary on the litany of things that Emmeline can do that babies can't. She reminded me today that "babies can't have a cup." Nevermind that I had been telling her that babies can't have cupcakes, cups are more important. She was completely thrown when my mom told her babies can't talk. "Can't use a words?" She was so shocked by this information that she brought it up again, several times. "Babies don't talk." No surprise that Ms. Verbal Skills is concerned about a whole person who can't even communicate. She likes to tell us too about the many things she's going to share with the baby when it comes to our house, "in a spring." She will share her ball and her dog, but according to Em, "babies can't go in Meme's car." Hmmm. Nor in Meme's lap, or all of Meme's house actually. We'll be working on that one.
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Christmas card 2010
Monday, December 6, 2010
Decorating the Tree/Dress-up
My funny girl. She was SO excited to help trim the tree, she could hardly slow down enough to actually HELP. She had a tough time hanging the ornaments, but loved unpacking them, and talking about them. To pass the time, she tried on her dress ups.
Friday, December 3, 2010
Santa Claus!
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
19 Weeks
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
And, We're Back!
So a pretty eventful summer. But now the weather is slightly chillier (I mean, after a summer of record breaking heat, 85 feels chilly). Fall is approaching, and with it, FOOTBALL! PUMPKINS! CIDER! LEAVES! and JACKETS! Yea yea yea yea yea! So, hopefully, pictures to follow of us doing all of those fun fall things. I'm not sure yet how I will post pictures of us jacketing or cidering, but I'll see what I can do.
Friday, June 4, 2010
Lame Update
Helping make dinner! Em loves her apron, she knows it means food is coming.
Signing help.
Emmeline loves to feed her baby, whose name is Ava. Ava is a 4 year old at our preschool who likes to share her breakfast with Em.
We took Em to the Botanic Garden a few weekends ago. Their children's garden is awesome! She loved watering the plants.
After the Botanic Garden, we went to a little family dinner at Jaleo. Delicious!
Emmeline tried so hard to get that ball when Andrew and Luke and Daddy were throwing it around. She never got discouraged though - she knew at least one of the three men she has wrapped around her finger would give in eventually.
Emmeline really really enjoyed her first corn on the cob at Gracie's house. My camera died as I took this picture, so it's not a great one, but I cannot emphasize enough how much she liked that corn.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Under-Where?
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Once Upon a Potty
I have had high hopes for potty training Em since before she was born. I was going to use cloth diapers so that she would start out from the beginning knowing how a wet diaper feels. The "good" brand diapers absorb the moisture too quickly; children in crappy diapers or cloth tend to train earlier. When my cloth diapering dream ended in a rash of, well, rash, I tried to use the cheapest diapers possible. That went by the wayside until a few months ago - she kept pooping through them. Since her birthday, however, we have been using store brand diapers, and sitting Emmy on the potty after she wakes up, after nap, before bath and before bed. Back in February, she was using the potty pretty much everytime we sat her on it. We signed potty, we talked about wet and dry, we practiced washing hands, we read potty books. Things were going swimmingly.
Then she started walking. Once she figured out how to get up from the potty, that was what she wanted to spend her time doing. It has been several weeks since she would sit on the potty unless she was being entertained. I still made her sit at least before bath, since her peeing in the tub is not how I want to spend an evening, but rarely was anything happening.
I was getting a little frustrated; not that I wanted to force the issue, but she had been doing so well! I had been quietly buying training underwear anytime I saw it on sale. I had bought another potty so we could have one on both levels of the house.
About a week ago, I decided I know enough and have enough experience to give this a good try again, without pushing her or really frustrating myself. So, every afternoon, after nap, I put her in underwear. I let her walk around the house, and dragged the potty with us into every room. I analyzed every facial tic, and would have her sit on the potty whenever she looked like something was going on. She peed on herself a few times, and I just cleaned it up, and reminded her that her potty was close for next time. By Friday, she was telling me as she was peeing in her diaper or underwear! She's not really ready to be potty training for real, but I feel really good about where she is now. Last night, she told me in the tub that she had to poop. I got her out of the tub, and she did poop - right in the potty. Same thing this afternoon. She's definitely got an awareness now of what's going on, so if things continue like this, we may be done with diapers before the fall!!!
I'm really excited for this next step onto toddlerhood. Whooooohooo!
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Catch Up
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Woot!
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Gimme 2 Steps, Gimme 2 Steps Mister
Monday, March 1, 2010
PT Update
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Why? Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me?
While your hormones allow you to hold on to your hair while you are pregnant, the hair immediately starts falling out after the baby is born. Yes, people told me that. What all of my mom friends and the books I read failed to tell me is that when your hair begins to grow back in, you can have matching hair with your infant. I have all of these ridiculous baby hairs sticking up on the crown of my head and by my bangs. Real cute. I can't put a little velcro bow in so strangers smile and tell me how cute I am. I have been secretly stealing Shawn's pomade.
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Snow Days
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
IFSP
Introspective First Summer Planner? Nope, not that either. (I made that up.)
This is something I have been meaning to blog about, but didn't quite know how to start. When you're embroiled in something, it's not easy to stop and explain it to others from the very beginning. So, Emmeline doesn't crawl. We know that. She commando crawled a little, before she figured out how to flip onto her behind. Since that fateful day, we have not been able to put her on her belly on the floor - she just gets up to her butt and does her cute butt scoot. For the uninitiated, she leans her weight on her left hand, behind her, while she uses her right foot to drag herself along the floor. She's become very adept at this, and it is her preferred method of locomotion. It works for her. However, she never got all that good time working her muscles (especially her leg muscles) while crawling around.
So, when we took her for her 9 month check up, Dr Martin asked about how she did pulling up or supporting her own weight when we stood her up. I told him she had no desire to do either of those things, and after he tested her out, he found I was right. He recommended I give it a month, and if she was still not supporting her weight on her legs, we would need to consider...other things. I don't remember what exactly, just that the pediatrician was telling me I had a month to get my kid to do something. Right. I felt that it was not a big deal that she wasn't pulling up at 9 months (I mean, some kids don't even crawl until 10 months, I really wasn't worried). I was slightly worried that she wasn't supporting her own weight, but she has run a little behind with all gross motor stuff.
Fast forward to December. Emmeline is now 10, almost 11 months. I realize that she is not going to work this out on her own. She is no closer to pulling up, and is downright scared if I stand her up, even leaning on something. Great. This is when I decide to call the pediatrician. He checks her out, and says he feels that her muscle tone is very low. He gives me a referral to the Early Intervention program here. They meet her, and after playing lots of games with her, chatting with me, and checking her out, decide that she is eligible for services through the county. The physical therapist we met with wrote a detailed, and somewhat depressing, IFSP - Individualized Family Service Plan. Which brings us pretty much up to date.
As of now, I'm just waiting for a call telling us who our physical therapist is, and when/where we will meet for our weekly PT date.
Of course, this all uncharted territory for us. I've worked with a few children with IFSPs before (this is the preschool equivalent of an IEP), but every one of those kids had serious special needs - autism or CP, things that aren't going to go away. This is different, in that it seems Em only needs a little push and practice before she'll catch up. The physical therapist who wrote up her IFSP said she thought Emmeline would easily meet the goals she set long before the goal date. We'll see, and I'll update things here with how the physical therapy is going.
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Milepost: Toddler
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Travelin' Baby
Pretty painful, as was the flight. An 11 hour flight in which Em refused to stay in her car seat. So glad we paid for a seat for her on an international flight. Not like that was expensive or anything. Anyway, she slept some, as did Shawn, Merissa and I. We arrived in Argentina on Sunday morning, and were immediately greeted by how baby crazy the portenos are. We were allowed to skip the line at customs since we had a little baby with us. Strangers piched her cheeks, and told us in spanglish how beautiful she was. Asked how old she was, and what her name is. Luckily, I speak Spanish 101, (nothing higher) so I was able to answer their questions for the most part. Emmeline was a superstar down there - she waved, smiled, flirted and blew kisses to most of the strangers.
We were renting an apartment, so we took a cab (no car seat) from Ezeiza Aeropuerto to Recoleta, the neighborhood we would call home for the next week. The apartment was gorgeous, three bedroom, four bath. Wild. Lucky for us, the woman we were renting from spoke English fluently. She told us there was a grocery store around the corner, so we loaded Em into the backpack and hopped over there. We found that instead of a ten items or under line, they had a pregnant/with child ten years or under line! Awesome! We didn't actually see it until we were done, but I think this proves the extent to which the portenos are baby obsessed. Emmeline wasn't a huge fan of the canned peas and jamon y queso raviolis we gave her for lunch.
I won't do a blow by blow of the whole trip, but here are some highlights:
1) Visiting the Buenos Aires Zoo, and seeing indigenous South American animals
2) Numerous taxi rides with generally cranky cabbies who are 10 times as scary as any NYC cabbie
3) Visiting the Plaza de Mayo and the Casa Rosada (famous for many speeches from its balcony by such Argentines as Evita and Diego Maradona)
4) Eating our first alfajores...I don't know how these glorious confections aren't popular here. They are ridiculous - who can resist what is essentially a dulce de leche sandwich cookie coated in chocolate?
5) Riding the "fast ferry" to Uruguay in first class, where we got to ride a bus to a farm where we were the only four people who didn't belong on the farm. They fed us "beautiful" pork, flan, and homemade dulce de leche, along with 7 tons of other homemade food...and showed us their Guinness Book of World Record collections of pencils and keychains. I am not making this up. Swear to you. I also rode a horse. There is photographic evidence.
6) Emmeline taking many naps in our backpack, and also on padded benches at any cafe we could find.
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Christmas Part 2
Christmas dinner wrapped up around 7:30, and Merissa, Luke, Shawn and I flew around the house moving stuff off the kitchen counter, stripping the bathrooms of personal items, and un-trimming the Christmas tree.
Thus ended our first Christmas at our house. It was exactly what I thought it would be - family, fun, with a touch of frenzy.